LOVE GOES BEYOND CONVENIENCE.
In
the name + of Jesus.
In our Catechism Class, we talk about two different ways we sin against God’s Commandments. They are sins of commission and sins of omission. Sins of commission are done when you commit the sin against God’s Commandment. For example, when you tell a lie about someone, that is an act of wickedness. You have committed the sin. This is usually what we think of when we speak about sins. We think of actions that we have taken which go against God’s will.
Sins
of omission, on the other hand, are when we omit the good that God wants us to
do. So, you may not have told a lie
about someone, but what if you did not defend the reputation of the person who
was being lied about? That means you did
not do good toward that person when you should have. These are sins, too, and we are right to confess
both: “I have done what is evil (sins of commission), and I have failed to do
what is good (sins of omission).”
The Gospel reading for this week
highlights our sins of omission. Jesus
said, “I say to you who are listening: Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you. Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who mistreat you. If someone strikes you on one cheek, offer
the other too. If someone takes away
your coat, do not withhold your shirt” (Luke 6:27-29). We fail to do what is good because we think
that we are excused if we don’t. It is
easy to come up with reasons why we don’t do what Jesus tells us to do. “My enemy doesn’t deserve it. People who mistreat me should be cursed, not
blessed. I have a gesture for people who
hate me, and it is not prayer. Why would
I turn the other cheek to the one who strikes me? I am going to hit back, and harder!”
We are often blind to the sins we commit
against others, but we have an acute sense of justice when we are wronged. What’s worse is that we seem to be eager to
accuse others of wronging us. Forget about
someone taking your cloak and then letting them have your shirt as well. We become offended over things that are far
more petty. “That guy stole my
parking spot. Someone took the last
piece of dessert. I can’t believe they
are making me wait.” Rather than
graciously overlooking these things, we act as if these are grave sins and the height
of disrespect. And then, we want
justice. Actually, we want revenge. If anyone causes us suffering, we want them
to suffer worse. Anger produces
hatred. Hatred incites violence. But we call it justice. And then we have the nerve to claim what good
people we are. Repent.
Love goes beyond convenience. Love does not depend upon who people are or
how they treat us. Love does one thing:
It seeks the good of other people. Love
goes beyond convenience. Jesus knows
what a convenient love looks like. He
says, “If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? To be sure, even the sinners love those who
love them. And if you do good to those
who do good to you, what credit is that to you? Even the sinners do the same thing. If you lend to those from whom you expect to
be repaid, what credit is that to you? Even
the sinners lend to sinners in order to be paid back in full. Instead, love your enemies, do good and lend,
expecting nothing in return” (Luke 6:32-35).
It is convenient to love those who will
love you back. It is easy to lend to
those you know will repay you. It is
convenient to care for people who are grateful and will praise you for your
acts of kindness. Even if your acts of
kindness are done anonymously, you are willing to do them because you expect
others will gush over your charity.
So, what about those who don’t appreciate
it or won’t acknowledge it? How long do
we have to put up with that? Should it
matter? In theory, you might say your
love would persist. In practice? Such love runs dry very quickly. But Jesus tells you not to omit the love for
your fellow man even when it is hard.
Love goes beyond convenience. It
seeks the good of people whether they are successful or destitute. It seeks the good of people whether they are
well-mannered or crude. It seeks the
good of people whether they are friend or foe.
It seeks the good of people who will respond in kind, who won’t respond
at all, or who will respond with obscenities and insults. “If you love those who love you, what
credit is that to you? To be sure, even
the sinners love those who love them” (Luke 6:32). Love does not care what the other person
does. Love only gives. It does not seek compensation. Love goes beyond convenience.
Consider our Old Testament lesson and the
love that Joseph demonstrated toward his brothers. You might recall how their jealousy led to a
plot to kill him. Cooler heads
prevailed, but not loving hearts. They
sold Joseph into slavery. Through a
course of events, Joseph had an encounter with Pharaoh which resulted in him
being put in charge of the distribution of food during a seven-year
famine. Joseph’s brothers had to come to
Egypt to get food during this famine. Joseph
was in a position to exact revenge on his brothers. No one would have stopped him, and no one
would have blamed him. You could make a
strong case that anything he did to them would be justice. What his brothers did to him was evil, and
Joseph did not hesitate to say so. But Joseph
believed that what his brothers needed from him was not justice, but
mercy. Joseph demonstrated an amazing
love toward his brothers and their families.
It was not because they deserved it.
It is because it was needed. Love
is not driven by whether someone is worthy or not. Love is given freely by the one who
loves. And love goes beyond convenience.
Jesus’ teaching exposes our sinfulness. He shows us that we are not like God. Jesus said that “the Most High … is kind
to the unthankful and the evil” (Luke 6:35). It does not matter to God that we are
sinners. “God is love” (1 John 4:16),
and so God loves freely, even upon those who are ignorant, ungrateful, or
hostile. Jesus taught the Golden Rule: “Treat
others just as you would want them to treat you” (Luke 6:31). That sounds good, but our love is
conditional. We do not love others the
way we would want them to love us; we love others only so far as they love us
back. We omit the good we are supposed
to do because we regard such love as risky or dangerous or a waste of our
efforts. But love goes beyond
convenience.
Our Lord Jesus
did not just talk about this love. We
can all talk about it, but it is another thing entirely to practice what you
preach. Jesus did both. Jesus did love his enemies. Jesus prayed for those who persecuted him,
who betrayed him, and who denied him.
Jesus did good to all people, even when he was vilified for it. Jesus demonstrated mercy to well-known
sinners because he knew they did not need to have their sins rubbed in their
face. They needed to have their sins
taken away. Jesus came to do just
that. When his enemies struck him in the
face, Jesus offered to them his other cheek also. He even allowed his enemies to pull his beard
and spit in his face. When they took his
cloak, Jesus allowed them to cast lots for his tunic so that he died on the
cross completely exposed.
As Jesus was
enduring the shame of crucifixion and the torment of God’s wrath for our sins,
his enemies mocked him. “If you are
the Son of God, come down from the cross!
…He saved others, but he cannot save himself. If he’s the King of
Israel, let him come down now from the cross, and we will believe in him”
(Matthew 27:40-41). Jesus would have
had every right to come off the cross and declare, “You know what? You people are not worth it. You deserve what you will get for your
stubborn unbelief and loveless hearts.
I’m done.” But he did not. Even if they withheld their love from him,
Jesus would not withhold his.
He does not treat
us as our sins deserve. Rather, Jesus
was treated as our sins deserve. His
love went far beyond convenience. Like
his heavenly Father, Jesus “is kind to the unthankful and the evil” (Luke
6:35). So, rather than rub our sins
in our face, he took them away. Rather
than execute justice and condemn us, Jesus was executed and condemned in our
place. For our lack of mercy, for our
slowness to forgive, and for our cold and conditional love, Jesus poured out
limitless love, immeasurable mercy, and full forgiveness. This is not because it is deserved, but
because it is needed. Love goes beyond
convenience.
As our Lord has
shown such love and mercy to us, we get to demonstrate that same love and mercy
to others. Love always seeks what is
good for others, even if they are unthankful and evil. But don’t confuse love for your fellow man
with acceptance of everything he might do.
When people argue that love means accepting their sins, they like to
quote this Bible verse, “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned”
(Luke 6:37). They may not know much
about the Bible, but they know that verse.
It is intended to shut you up about sins.
But the reality
is you cannot go through life without making judgments. There are certain things that are good or
evil. If you hear about a murder, you
don’t throw your hands up and say, “Who are we to judge?” No, murder is evil. Judgments are necessary, but the question is,
“By what standard are you making your judgment?” The only standard that matters is the one
used by the one who will judge the living and the dead, Jesus Christ. The Lord tells us what is good and right
versus what is wicked and wrong. So, we
let God remain the judge, and we will agree with him. Even if God’s judgment shows me I am wrong, I
acknowledge that God is right. I confess
my sin, and I repent. So, when God shows
me that I love my fellow man with strings attached, then I repent and put aside
my pettiness. Love means I will view my
fellow man with compassion. Out of love
for him, I am not only allowed to call sins evil, I am supposed to. But love means my goal is not to rub his sins
in his face. My goal is to show him his
need for the Savior who died to set people free from their sins. By doing so, I am seeking the highest good of
my fellow man. That is how the heavenly
Father has treated you and me.
Love goes beyond convenience. We do not take it upon ourselves to get
vengeance upon the wicked; we leave that to our Lord. Rather than focus on how we are wronged by
our fellow man, we focus on how we are loved and saved by Jesus. We rejoice in the mercies of our Lord, and we
are eager for others to know this mercy too.
They will learn of God’s mercies as they see that mercy shown by
you. It may not be convenient. It is certainly not deserved. But it is good.
In the name of the Father and of the Son + and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
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